Consent and safety
What is aftercare?
Aftercare is the time you take after a kink scene to check in, recover, and reconnect, physically and emotionally.
It can mean water, warmth, a snack, quiet, cuddling or conversation, and it sometimes continues into the next day. Needs differ between people and between scenes, so it works best to talk about what each person wants before you play, and to check in again afterwards.
Keep reading: What if we have different aftercare needs?
Written for the kink community by Aidan Sunassee.